You are
sitting next to a stranger on an airplane. What, according to the self-help
experts, is a surefire way to engage such individuals in conversation? By guiding them along to talk about themselves and what they do!
Anton
Chekhov’s short story “The Darling” is a character sketch of Olenka (“Olenka”
is an alternate form of the name “Olga”).
She has successive romantic relationships with Kukin the theatrical
producer, Pustovalov, the timber agent, and
Smirnin the verterinarian.
Chekhov writes, “she wanted a love that would absorb her whole being,
her whole soul and reason, that would give her ideas an object in life and
would warm her old blood.”
Olenka becomes so absorbed with her lovers, however, that she appears to have no self of her
own. For example, after her first husband
Kukin dies and she marries Pustovalov, she has no time for the frivolity of the
theater, because she has become so immersed in the timber business. She even dreams about 2 by 4’s!